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Title: identical twin with BPD Post by: Debsis on January 02, 2013, 07:32:31 AM BPD twin has conducted a distortion campaign on my husband and me for the past 2 years. she has emotionally, legally and financially targeted us. she's recruited my family members... . which really hurts. She's attacked us and yet portrayed herself as the victim. i suspect she will never end the legal attack as it's the only connection left to me. any one had similar experience?
Title: Re: identical twin with BPD Post by: Vindi on January 02, 2013, 07:56:46 AM *welcome*hi i don't have a similar experience but if you want help with dealing with loved ones w/BPD this is the place to be.
Here are some good links to check out... . [L5] Coping and Healing from a BPD Parent, Sibling, or Inlaw Board (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=7.0) Video-Tools to Reduce Conflict with a person suffering from BPD (https://bpdfamily.blogspot.com/2010/09/video-tools-to-reduce-conflict-with.html) hoping things get a lil better with your sister and not feel so attacked, this website is a great resource of info. Title: Re: identical twin with BPD Post by: TheOtherOne on February 17, 2013, 11:41:51 AM I don't have a similiar experience, but I do have an identical twin with BPD. She ignores us until she's in trouble, and then disappears when she gets too close
Title: Re: identical twin with BPD Post by: ScarletOlive on February 17, 2013, 04:03:59 PM Hi Debsis,
*welcome* I'm sorry to hear this. It sounds really tough for you. Although the person with BPD in my life is my mom, I do know the effects of denigration campaigns and having family and friends turned against you. I'm glad you're here, because I know there are people who have been through similar and can relate. You're not alone here. How much contact do you have now with your sis? Sending much caring and support to you. |