Title: Red flag humor Post by: freshlySane on February 01, 2013, 06:15:21 PM I figured id share a very humorous eye opening but not out of the fog experience with my pwBPDex to show you the irrationality of their thinking at times.
I am a singer i sing r&b, alternative rock, blues even some country i love music I have a nice voice and when i was at work i loved to sing along to the radio it got me through the day. MY ex and I were on the phone and i was singing that Maroon 5 song "This love" lol go figure. she asked me to never sing in the presence of another woman because to her it was like i was singing to them, as weird as this request was i obliged because she said "me singing in the presence of another women is like her writing poetry for another man. She is an amazing writer ... . any way i was singing and enjoying work and our conversation... . She asked me " are you alone" I said no Patricia here ... She replies oh your employee i said Yes ... . She flipped on me I thought you said you was not going to sing for other women ... . I said to her Patricia older then my mother so i am not singing for another women She replies I don't care she could be a cougar I laughed but she was deadly serious ... . She raged hung up the phone. She called me back 30 minutes later and apologized mainly because i didn't call her back immediately like i always did she hung up and i said no i am not going to stop singing for anyone i told her I sing for me not you and any other women it makes me happy she tried to us this control tactic on me again 2 years later in the same way i shut her down... . I love to sing it makes me happy that's actually how i get through the days i sing I find music and it makes me happy moral of the story Stick to your guns in a positive way and i hope you guys got a little humor out of this. i still chuckle when that memory slips in to my mind |