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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: wb1233 on February 03, 2013, 11:23:51 AM



Title: Deep Sadness
Post by: wb1233 on February 03, 2013, 11:23:51 AM
I think it finally dawned on me today that my uBPDexgf is mentally ill. I feel so sad for her. I know she didn't do or say the things she did on purpose. It's like expecting a blind man to see. We need to understand it this way. I know her past and sympathize with pain she went through. I know she tried really hard to keep our relationship together. She just didn't have the tools. Let's forgive them and pray for them. And forgive ourselves as well... .  


Title: Re: Deep Sadness
Post by: Newton on February 03, 2013, 12:05:52 PM
wb1233... .  acceptance of the facts you described in your post is the key to our healing process  |iiii