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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD => Topic started by: Lisallew on February 06, 2013, 04:56:01 PM



Title: Calling all Aussies
Post by: Lisallew on February 06, 2013, 04:56:01 PM
Hi all,

Are there any/many Australians posting on this board?

Would love to hear from any who are coping with a parent with BPD.

Thanks  *)


Title: Re: Calling all Aussies
Post by: Diligence on February 07, 2013, 12:02:15 AM
 Greetings from California.

Warm regards,

Diligence


Title: Re: Calling all Aussies
Post by: Lisallew on February 07, 2013, 01:03:52 AM
Hi from Sydney!



Do you have a good support network over there? I find that in Sydney, and Australia in general, it's sadly lacking.



Title: Re: Calling all Aussies
Post by: Clearmind on February 08, 2013, 02:56:07 AM
  Lisa - I haven't been to any support groups.

My father is also an alcoholic - there are support groups for Adult Children of Alcoholics if that fits your situation - otherwise you are right - not many groups for adult kids of BPD's.

Do you have a therapist?


Title: Re: Calling all Aussies
Post by: GeekyGirl on February 08, 2013, 03:38:17 PM
There are a number of members from Australia here, and more than a few members who want to visit Australia, like me.  :)

Clearmind has a good point. If you're working with a therapist already, he/she might be able to point you to some local support groups. If your mother abuses substances as part of her disorder, you might also find Al-Anon helpful.



Title: Re: Calling all Aussies
Post by: littlemermaid on February 12, 2013, 06:39:40 PM
Hi Lisallew

I am an Aussie with a UBPD sister who is doing my head in. I have just started going to Arafmi.

Have you tried them they have a support group and free counselling

Cheers


Title: Re: Calling all Aussies
Post by: hadenoughmum on February 13, 2013, 07:48:45 PM
I'm also an Aussie with a BPD mum. I'm in Melbourne 

I had a look at BPD family support groups around me but they seem mostly aimed at BPD carers and since I don't even live in the same state at my mum I wasn't sure if I really fit that bill...