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Title: Should We Assume?
Post by: Willingtolearn on February 08, 2013, 02:29:11 PM
By it's very nature the condition that is BPD is a mental illness. Therefore should we assume that no matter what we discuss about the condition, we will NEVER really know what goes on in the mind of a mentally ill person?  Is it always just a case of "second guessing"?


Title: Re: Should We Assume?
Post by: Newton on February 08, 2013, 02:40:56 PM
I think that is a fair assumption to make.  I suffer from depression, it's a mental illness, if you shared the fact with me that you experience depressive symptoms too that doesn't mean you would therefore have the same experience I do.

We can all tick boxes on a check list and have a rough guess at our exs feelings and thoughts but that doesn't mean we can fully grasp what they are experiencing.

I believe that is true for all human experience of "another", dysfunctional or not.