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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: FollowingBliss on February 11, 2013, 04:47:39 PM



Title: Insult to injury
Post by: FollowingBliss on February 11, 2013, 04:47:39 PM
The ex no longer wants to be friends, as he said I blame him for everything and "it keeps us all sicker."  So I blocked him. Then I get a message from a new account (which I then block) saying he would be okay with "an occasional email" from me where we can "kind of" update each other on how we're doing.  Talk about adding insult to injury.  Isn't it bad enough to be restricted to email, when everyone else gets his contact information?  His own children can't even call him on the phone! 

Has anyone else felt dehumanized by their ridiculous rules and regulations?


Title: Re: Insult to injury
Post by: TheDude on February 11, 2013, 04:52:33 PM
The ex no longer wants to be friends... .  

If you really want to heal, he did you a HUGE favor.  :)


Title: Re: Insult to injury
Post by: FollowingBliss on February 11, 2013, 05:03:11 PM
Very true... .  but  that doesn't make it hurt any less.

How are you doing?