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Title: Cleansing my life Post by: OmegaCard on February 12, 2013, 10:15:09 AM Hi, i recently had a thread in the decision forum and as you can tell i decided to leave. Here is a link to the thread: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=193786.new#new (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=193786.new#new)
My wife has BPD, and i am leaving the toxic relationship. I moved to her country and recently escaped back to my home country pretending i was just going to visit relatives. My challenge now is how to end the marriage. I had to escape because of the violence and fear for my life. I am not a confeontational person and necer ended a relationship before, even though i am safe and away from her i am still afraid. The marriage was islamic and took place in north africa, i moved there from the uk, i could never get a job there therefore was dependant on her, she didnt work so we were dependant on her family, they gave us everything, bought me things which i didnt ask for. I only returned with my own possessed i had brought there in the first place. I need advice on how to finish this now because i feel i cant move on and i am stuck, havent spoken to my wife in a few days. Title: Re: Cleansing my life Post by: seeking balance on February 12, 2013, 12:02:36 PM Hi OmegaCard,
I have no idea on this - but there is a legal board and I think you will get better advice by posting this request over there. Peace, SB Title: Re: Cleansing my life Post by: gina louise on February 12, 2013, 12:26:12 PM your local masjid or mosque may have some more information on ending an islamic marriage. did you also have a civil ceremony?
I am muslim and have seen marriages done both ways-mosque only (skipping the civil part) and civil process+religious as well. Not saying it's "right" just that people do this. if not, an attorney versed in family law of your own home country would also be a starting point. GL |