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Title: Now I know she is insane Post by: Slo_Learner on February 16, 2013, 06:27:32 PM Hi All,
I have not been on this board for over 3 years... . and yunno what happened? LOL I have not seen or heard of my ex wife in nearly 4 years - who is a uNBPD (she was diagnosed by the local mental health services who actually contacted me after she got arrested for assaulting me - they wanted to counsel me to ensure I would never go back - they deemed her as very dangerous) I am in a happy relationship and last week, out of the blue, she called me and wanted to get things off her chest. She wanted to meet up for a coffee and apologise... . However, she was EXACTLY the same as before - she has just ended a 3 year relationship and all she wanted was for me to have sex with her! LOL LOL LOL She actually had a go at me and actually asked me to kiss her and sleep with her - when I declined, she pointed at herself and said 'you mean you dont want this'... . I said no, finished my drink and left - she text me later and asked me to dinner... . She is so sick - and my current GF thinks it hilarious (but I know how dangerous it really is) Title: Re: Now I know she is insane Post by: TheDude on February 16, 2013, 08:56:07 PM ... . and my current GF thinks it hilarious... . Well, the good news is that the current GF most likely isn't Borderline, based on her reaction. :) Title: Re: Now I know she is insane Post by: Slo_Learner on February 16, 2013, 09:11:34 PM No, definitely not! I am so careful nowadays - to make sure.
I did however, thank my ex for the experience as it has put everything else into perspective. I knew she would re-surface as the Mental Health staff warned me - they were right. I have been recycled by her before but can now laugh at her ego. Title: Re: Now I know she is insane Post by: officer1618 on February 16, 2013, 11:16:32 PM "You mean you don't want this?" is a direct quote I heard 1000 times from my ex while I tried to seperate from her. She would come around when she was fighting with her boyfriend/fiancée <wink wink... . you know... . the one she didn't have... . the one I must have been making up... . the one whose clothes I found in our bedroom... . yeah, that one> and she would try to test the chance to splice reality to pick up like nothing ever happened. Whenever I would tell her to go away all I ever heard in that weepy, save-me, puppy eyed, "You mean <sniff sniff>... . y'you don't want this?" Then when I ignored her plea the persecutory parent showed up instantly and followed the Borderline formula with "Whatever... . I already told everyone what a jerk you were and how I'm doing everything possible to hold this marriage together... . but you don't want it. Hope ya don't go crazy if I move on". God, Father in Heaven, thank you for deliverance.
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