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Title: Blocking DOES help Post by: MakeItHappen on February 20, 2013, 10:29:00 AM Wanted to say THANKS to all of you on these boards that helped me make the decision to NC and block my exBPD.
It's only been 2 days but, I feel so much lighter on all levels. It really is a blessing to have the ability to NC. I never thought I could do it and I'm doing it. Again, it's only been two days but it's a great feeling and a great start. Granted, I am still afraid of the possible "wrath" but, can't focus on what might happen. THANK YOU AGAIN all on this board. Title: Re: Blocking DOES help Post by: slimmiller on February 20, 2013, 10:34:00 AM Good for you! Maintain it at all costs. I envy you, I have three beautiful precious children with mine and the youngest is almost 7. 11 more years and I can go NC on her completely. Now thats not exactly possible. God, saying that sounds like an eternal condemnation to Hell. But still someday it will be so
|iiii Title: Re: Blocking DOES help Post by: trouble11 on February 20, 2013, 10:40:13 AM Good for you. I recently blocked all calls and texts. Funny thing was, prior to blocking, every time I heard my text notification I was having mini panic/anxiety attacks. I tried changing the notification sound, but that didn't help. The second I blocked him I could hear it and not have a physical response. It was great!
Title: Re: Blocking DOES help Post by: MakeItHappen on February 20, 2013, 10:43:24 AM Good for you. I recently blocked all calls and texts. Funny thing was, prior to blocking, every time I heard my text notification I was having mini panic/anxiety attacks. I tried changing the notification sound, but that didn't help. The second I blocked him I could hear it and not have a physical response. It was great! AMEN to that. Every time a text comes in, I go through the same thing. I'm hoping(fingers crossed), that the block on FB will be enough. It's costs a bit of $ to block on the telephone. What an interesting process this ALL is. Thanks again ALL. We must ALL be strong! :light: |iiii Title: Re: Blocking DOES help Post by: trouble11 on February 20, 2013, 12:36:05 PM I could only kinda block FB as I raise German Shepherds and have a page for them. My exBPD is fairly weak, I think once he tries my phone and gmail and gets nothing he won't persist.
Title: Re: Blocking DOES help Post by: MakeItHappen on February 20, 2013, 12:46:49 PM I could only kinda block FB as I raise German Shepherds and have a page for them. My exBPD is fairly weak, I think once he tries my phone and gmail and gets nothing he won't persist. fingers crossed. i too have other "pages" on that silly little thing called, facebook. so far, so good. good luck. :) |