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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: NotPerfect on February 20, 2013, 03:58:12 PM



Title: Is SO being extra hesitant in from on IN-law so I get frustrated?
Post by: NotPerfect on February 20, 2013, 03:58:12 PM
Father in law in town for a few days. 

I can't tell if SO is being extra hesitant in from on IN-law so I get frustrated?

It is working.

She just revealed that she has been sick all day with sinus pressure.

So, now I am an @sshole.

But now I find out she did not take the Psudophed that I made a special trip to the store to get last night. Is this accidentally on purpose?

I had an Ah-hah moment when I realized that it is entirely possible that she is doing this so I  show the in-law that I am the problem not her.

I think I handled her throwing away the $500 check that I disussed with her last night. I believe I said to her,  while holding the envelope with the check in it "This company always send me checks in envelopes that look like junkmail"  I then put it on top of the microwave.  This morning envelope in the garbage.