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Title: FOG is finally lifting Post by: stevenq on February 24, 2013, 12:50:54 PM Today is 11weeks of NC with my BPD ex gf and I can honestly say the FOG is lifting fast! Ive managed to only remember the negatives fr that relationship and look at the whole pix! If i would have stayed w her she would have done perm damage to myself which would have effected my own 2 kids! I dont miss the constant texts, phone calls, the jealousies, etc! I dont really know if shes w someone new after 11weeks but i know she wont change for the best if she is! Do i want closure? No i really dont. Im proud of myself for detaching myyself fr her!
Title: Re: FOG is finally lifting Post by: chuckstrong on February 24, 2013, 01:09:34 PM StevenQ
So jealous! you are doing great... . I would love 11 weeks NC and a FOG lift I am beside myself she hasn't texted me since Friday after a nightmarish last 5.5 months of recycle/nc/recycle/nc over and over... . We are like old pals now I cant tell you how much it sucks. Congrats man keep it up! Chuck Title: Re: FOG is finally lifting Post by: stevenq on February 24, 2013, 02:58:47 PM Hey Chuck! I feel you! U stay strong and remember life is too short to be miserable! We deserve to be happy!
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