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Title: Married twice... just realized 1st wife is uBPD ALSO
Post by: Mike_confused on February 27, 2013, 10:54:36 AM
I have other posts on this site.  Oh my God, I am not sure what brought me to this realization but I know fully understand that my 1st wife was/IS uBPD also.  Currently separated from second uBPD wife.  I never realized the first was.  Oh my Lord what is wrong with me?

I can't even give all the details now since I am almost speechless.


Title: Re: Married twice... just realized 1st wife is uBPD ALSO
Post by: seeking balance on February 27, 2013, 11:01:04 AM
I have other posts on this site.  Oh my God, I am not sure what brought me to this realization but I know fully understand that my 1st wife was/IS uBPD also.  Currently separated from second uBPD wife.  I never realized the first was.  Oh my Lord what is wrong with me?

I can't even give all the details now since I am almost speechless.

Well, 2 marriages w/ BPD traits - my thought is you want to look at your family dynamics... .  

My "aha" was - OMG, "I married my mother"... .  different version, but same results.


Title: Re: Married twice... just realized 1st wife is uBPD ALSO
Post by: nylonsquid on February 27, 2013, 03:35:14 PM


[My "aha" was - OMG, "I married my mother"... .  different version, but same results.]


Haha. This was me as well.