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Title: BPD and pregnancy Post by: stash419 on February 27, 2013, 09:08:14 PM Is there any studies about BPD (w/NPD traits) and pregnancy. The reason i ask is b/c my uBPDSTBXW was a binge drinker and abused other drugs such as cocain in the past. As soon as she was pregnant it all stopped completely. It was if she was new person. No sign of BPD whatsoever. I always joked with our friends when their wives were a lot different during those nine months (unusually moody) and i always said and still do to this day is that the was the best 9 months of our r/s & marriage. For some reason she could rationalize things and not rage about anything it was like this euphoria of communication and reasoning. It was so calm. Healthy everything, eating sleeping no stress whatssoever. It wasn't a couple weeks after our D was born it seem to start up right where it left off again. Alcohol binders, promiscuity, and black and white thinking.
Thoughts? Title: Re: BPD and pregnancy Post by: Eco on February 28, 2013, 08:25:29 PM My uNPD/BPD xgf got much worse as each month went by in her pregnancy she is due to give birth any day now, her rages and crazy thinking went off the charts about 3 months ago. she seems to stay in a constant state of dysreagulation, she has bite her nose off to spite her face and shot herself in both feet with her actions.
Im hoping she evens out after the baby comes but im not so sure it will happen, we are in NC and she refuses to talk to me about the baby saying I dont deserve to be around the baby when she comes because I havent been around. funny thing is she is the one that has aggressivly pushed me away the whole time. I did talk to her last week where she told me that maybe we could get back together if I got my own place and moved out of my parents house, the thing is it would mean paying 2 rents because we already have a house together that i pay half the rent in. again crazy request and unrealistic thinking, she was much more calm then ive heard her in 8 months but her thinking is still a mess. |