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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Scott44 on February 28, 2013, 04:40:13 PM



Title: Therapy
Post by: Scott44 on February 28, 2013, 04:40:13 PM
If I would have suggested therapy instead of having an EA, would it have made any difference to the outcome of our marriage?


Title: Re: Therapy
Post by: GreenMango on February 28, 2013, 05:18:52 PM
What do you mean suggested therapy over an ES?

Was this up to you?


Title: Re: Therapy
Post by: mango_flower on February 28, 2013, 05:21:03 PM
I'm not sure what EA or ES is... .  

But therapy can only work if both people are prepared to put the work in.

Also, it's not only about what YOU suggested - she was 50% of the relationship too.  What suggestions did she make to save your marriage?


Title: Re: Therapy
Post by: GreenMango on February 28, 2013, 10:38:15 PM
EA, emotional affair