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Title: On the edge of the cliff Post by: 4Whatnow? on February 28, 2013, 11:16:03 PM About 30 year of marriage and the time is here. Therapy or divorce. My SO chose therapy, perhaps as a manipulation to keep me in, but I can't be certain of it. Sad but I cannot trust! I guess I will see. Where and how do I find good help and reference?
Title: Re: On the edge of the cliff Post by: Joseph54 on March 01, 2013, 02:50:40 AM Hi 4Whatnow?
Therapy is cheaper than divorce and it does not last as long. Joe :) Title: Re: On the edge of the cliff Post by: briefcase on March 02, 2013, 09:37:43 AM Rebuilding trust, and later intimacy will take time. Have you selected a counsellor yet? You might want to find someone who know about BPD. When I was looking for a counsellor I called my local mental health treatment center, explained what I was up against, and they gave me some names of local counsellors who they thought would help me the most.
Let us know how this works. Thirty years is a long time (I'm almost at 19 years) and I'm glad to hear he's agreed to try to salvage it. Good luck to both of you. |