Title: Update... Post by: crashintome on March 03, 2013, 10:46:46 AM So, I contacted her mother. I don't want to be overly specific, as I think her mom may find her way here.
Her mom, before I said ANYTHING, told me she thinks L has BPD. I was floored. You could have picked my jaw up off of the floor. It just reinforced to me that it's true and L has a actual, legitimate disease. And, rather than wanting to run further away, it made me want to help her even more. It made my heart hurt for her - knowing she has a mental illness and no one is able to help her. I'm very sad for her. I found out some things, things that matter to me but I'm not willing to just put out there on a forum, that made me realize she and I can never be. It hurts. It hurts a lot. Title: Re: Update... Post by: blecker on March 03, 2013, 12:59:36 PM I'm sorry it hurts but I believe the hurt you feel now pales to what hurt you would feel later.
Let her find the help she needs. |