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Title: How much do we miss the excitement? Post by: ohmygosh on March 06, 2013, 04:10:27 PM Hi
Just expaining myself here, maybe others can relate. The relationship I had with a BPD was the worst. At the same time it was full on, full of drama and controversy - you could call it exciting at times. Now my life is bordering on boredom, not much going on. Chaos can be addictive. Regards Title: Re: How mufh do we miss the excitement? Post by: fakename on March 06, 2013, 04:41:16 PM hahah...
it definitely kept it interesting. i know i'd rather have someone i got along with and can enjoy time with rather than always arguing, justifying or babysitting a little kid... . but i still do miss her and wish it worked out Title: Re: How mufh do we miss the excitement? Post by: WT on March 06, 2013, 04:49:12 PM I don't miss the fighting and arguing, but I do miss how excited my ex would get about things that made her happy. I'm a very calm person, so seeing her get so excited about something just made me smile when I saw it. Of course, I also had to deal with the flip side of her excitability. ...
Title: Re: How mufh do we miss the excitement? Post by: fakename on March 06, 2013, 05:16:30 PM WT,
i miss that to. it always made me happy. she'd be like a little kid so excited. i also miss the affection. whether it was throughout the day or when we are first meeting or leaving each other. if it wasnt for the lying and cheating, i would have no problem putting up with all the other crazy in her |