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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: motherof1yearold on March 17, 2013, 03:40:01 PM



Title: I'm posting here because I'm speaking of my close BPD friend.
Post by: motherof1yearold on March 17, 2013, 03:40:01 PM
Hi, apologies for posting on this board but I don't know where else it would fit. I normally post about my uBPD ex husband , but this post is about my very close friend, we will call her 'E' .

E has brought up on several occasions that she believed herself to be BPD. She even has read splitting. I appreciate her openness, so I am open with her about ex BPD. It's not like I could really hide it because E and my ex and I use to hangout extremely regularly. Ex BPD has even given E numerous tattoos. My point is she knows about the ex because ex has even verbally abused E.

So I'm now in the process of , well sort of picking E's brain. Asking her various questions about how she would react. I do understand BPDers are not typically 'welcomed'on this site... Are there any support sites I can send her to? She is also a DV victim and I am trying to get her to come into our local DV groups with me.

Though I keep myself at a safe healthy distance from E, I care very much about her and am so glad that we can be open to each other- without any risks.

Sorry I posted here I just didn't know of any better place, though feel free to correct me.

Thanks in advance



Title: Re: I'm posting here because I'm speaking of my close BPD friend.
Post by: Grey Kitty on March 17, 2013, 09:33:14 PM
Answer #1: This board isn't for meant for a person with BPD. One of the main sticky posts directs people with BPD to these resources (https://goo.gl/Fg5HBy) instead.

Question: You've spent lots of time here... .  and must have worked stuff out re: your ex-husband. Does your experience with BPD fit the other person well?


Title: Re: I'm posting here because I'm speaking of my close BPD friend.
Post by: motherof1yearold on March 18, 2013, 07:47:14 AM
Thanks for the link.

My experience with ex BPD husband is quite different since he has alot of NPD and ASPD mixed in...