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Title: Do you have mail at your house email... Post by: stoic83 on March 18, 2013, 06:49:01 PM Hey guys,
I just received an email from exwBPD: "Not trying to bother you, but was wondering if any of my mail has been delivered to your house?" I have some mail of hers... . and even though it's unreasonable, I feel frozen at the moment and dont know how to respond after 2 months NC and 4 year off/on. I dont want to deal with this, but I know i cant hold her mail... . i shouldve just returned to sender a long time ago. What do I respond? I can drop off in her mom's mailbox... . i dont want to ask for her address or tell her i will put return to sender... . Title: Re: Do you have mail at your house email... Post by: benny2 on March 18, 2013, 08:25:09 PM I had mail coming to my pwBPD after I moved out and it was a way of getting me over there to lure me back in. Sounds like you have totally disconnected, (hurrah for you) and don't want any contact with her at all, so I would simply put not at this address and throw it back in the mailbox for the mailman.
Title: Re: Do you have mail at your house email... Post by: Blazing Star on March 18, 2013, 09:52:05 PM I can drop off in her mom's mailbox... . i dont want to ask for her address or tell her i will put return to sender... . I think that's a great idea, dropping off in her mum's mailbox if you have that address and it feels too late to return to sender. Sounds like a good easy solution! Then the rest you just return to sender as soon as it arrives. Love Blazing Star |