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Title: Confessions and then denial Post by: cal644 on March 21, 2013, 10:21:40 AM I still scratch my head at a lot of the things my stbex said - but then when I point them out latter she will completely dey she said them. Here are a few examples.
1. I haven't loved you or respected you for years - I love you with my whole heart 2. I wish I could just melt in the ground a dissappear - I would never consider hurting myself 3. It takes all my energy just to get through the day 4. I don't know who I am - I've always known who I am 5. I've always been the person you want me to be 6. I am just a shell of a person 7. I can't find God - I have such a deep connection with God now 8. Your my best friend - now I have true friends 9. We are just friends (her and her EA) 10. I shut my heart out to you - for this reason, a day latter a different reason, a day latter a different one yet. 11. I hate you - I don't really hate you 12. I thought we were soulmates - I know you'll find your soulmate 13. I'm sad, broke, lonely and homeless. next day I'm getting along great 14. I'm sorry for my texts yesterday - next day don't call or text me ever - or I'll contact the attorney. 15. I put a mountian between us - you never gave me time to love you again 16. You know the best how my mind works - I don't have any issues 17 This doesn't have anything to do with my past - I think this has to do with my past. Title: Re: Confessions and then denial Post by: Rose Tiger on March 21, 2013, 10:34:12 AM Sounds about right. Emotional memory is very short term, like that movie 50 First Dates. How they feel right now is how they always felt. I can get annoyed with my teen but I will never forget how I felt when she was born, or forget how much I love her. It's scary to think about experiencing emotions getting wiped out regarding the past, say with a car accident injury or something.
Title: Re: Confessions and then denial Post by: willy45 on March 21, 2013, 10:41:13 AM Yup.
Same thing here. Almost exactly: I'm a happy, balanced person: I have the emotional status of a teenager I am doing so great: I am the most miserable I have ever been I love my job: I hate my job I love you: You are a jerk And on and on and on. Title: Re: Confessions and then denial Post by: cal644 on March 21, 2013, 12:59:32 PM That emotional memmory is soo confusing to me - when we were splitting she told me she couldn't remember any happy memories this last year. I gave her a ton of examples and she said oh yea I forgot about all of those things ... .
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