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Title: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: mtmc01 on March 21, 2013, 06:02:54 PM New puppy :)
Trust me! Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: expos on March 21, 2013, 08:55:11 PM You need to get yourself out there. I've been trying to do this more often. Every time someone asked me to go somewhere with them, meet them somewhere, or suggest something that I really didn't want to do - I did it anyways.
Keep you mind constantly occupied with other things and get active. A new partner can definitely kill old feelings for the ex. But make sure you are absolutely ready to date. This can be up to a year or more... . you'll know when you are ready to commit. I'm a year into separation and I haven't had much desire to even go on dates. Just don't be a like a BPD that jumps on the first thing that comes into focus! lol. Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: mtmc01 on March 21, 2013, 09:32:49 PM No, I was being serious. I literally bought a new puppy since she took the one we'd gotten together. I'm nowhere remotely near ready for a relationship 5 weeks out... .
Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: Hurt llama on March 22, 2013, 12:01:45 AM you know, I have been thinking of gettin a new puppy! and that just might be the answer... . in fact i know it is... .
Thank you for reminding me... (now i want to text my crazy ex and tell her... . too bad I am the crazy one now... :'( Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: hellnback on March 22, 2013, 12:29:20 AM A got a puppy when mine left. Best thing I've done for myself in a long time. I love my pooch. It's soo nice now. I come home from work and nobody hates me. My sweet dog greets me at the door wagging her tail. Sure makes me smile.
Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: LuckyEscapee on March 22, 2013, 01:10:56 AM Good for you |iiii
Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: Rose Tiger on March 22, 2013, 07:41:27 AM I agree with getting a puppy. It does help your heart to be loved by a sweet dog. Gets you out of the house. Lots of laughing and smiles. :)ogs are fantastic. Cats are great, too.
Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: Vindi on March 22, 2013, 09:01:18 AM yay for getting a new puppy, and too for realizing its only been 5 weeks since the relationship ended... . spend this time with your
new "furball" and the unconditional love! Title: Re: Best cure for getting over exBPD... Post by: afterdeath on March 22, 2013, 04:54:10 PM Working out, makes you feel and look better
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