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Title: Cold reading Post by: crazylife on March 27, 2013, 08:13:23 PM Can anyone tell me about this or point me to some articles?
Thanks Title: Re: Cold reading Post by: GreenMango on March 28, 2013, 01:18:25 AM CL I'm not sure what cold reading is or do you want some recommendations for the most helpful reading resources?
Title: Re: Cold reading Post by: crazylife on March 28, 2013, 05:20:21 PM I believe i read where pwBPD develop an ability to read a room or environment in a second. Since I read this I have been watching my husband closely in different situations and I am noticing things that are quick and subtle yet not something I have ever even though about. I want to find out more about it. The better I can see signs and predict a problem, the better and safer i will be.
Title: Re: Cold reading Post by: GreenMango on March 28, 2013, 05:24:31 PM My experience has been a lot of that reading a room was based on hypersensitive feelings or perceptions not quite based on actual events. Lots of paranoia and fear based judgments. I wouldn't rely on his read too much.
Developing yours can help though. Looking at your boundaries and communication skills from the stayig board lessons are a good start. Have you seen those? Title: Re: Cold reading Post by: crazylife on March 28, 2013, 06:44:17 PM not yet. I dont really think I am there just yet.
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