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Title: Hate Post by: PM10 on April 01, 2013, 10:26:49 PM I am having a hard time with his hatred and bitterness. I am not even sure I can articulate this correctly.
In the many times that I have tried to end the relationship, he has always expressed that he feels such bitterness and hatred for me. I am trying to understand this. I can understand his being angry with me, sure. But hate? I have never felt hate. I always just feel hurt. I guess both are unhealthy, but which one is more "normal"? Normal meaning healthy, I guess. I hope that made sense! Title: Re: Hate Post by: VeryFree on April 02, 2013, 01:41:08 AM love, hate, hurt. They all are very close to each other.
Love can become hate very easy, especially when you're hurt. Realize that it are all just words... . Title: Re: Hate Post by: Clearmind on April 02, 2013, 05:10:24 AM Take your feelings then magnify them by 10! That is how he feels about himself - its not about you at all PM10.
I am sorry you are hurting. Remind yourself what you are holding onto and what is stopping you from letting go. Title: Re: Hate Post by: PM10 on April 02, 2013, 08:14:43 AM Well, part of what keeps me from letting go IS his hatred. It makes me feel really awful that he hates me. I feel bad, and guilty.
I guess I am not understanding how this is NOT about me. He doesn't feel that way about anyone else. Just me. It makes me feel like a horrible person! |