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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: mango_flower on April 02, 2013, 06:52:41 PM



Title: Something went right for me today :)
Post by: mango_flower on April 02, 2013, 06:52:41 PM
Still dealing with same old drama re: ex - she owes money and had the cheek to email today to ask me if I am moving out of our shared place, as she wants to know about the deposit! (erm well seeing as that's about 10% of what she owes me, I think I'll be keeping that!)

But on to the positive -

I found a shared house today!  It's great - the other housemates seem so lovely and friendly :) :) :)

And it's SO freakin' cheap! £270 per months - all bills included! 

For anyone who doesn't understand £... .   it's about ONE THIRD of what I'm paying now for this place including all bills... .  

So excited and happy.

Landlord doesn't even want a deposit, which is amazing! 

The place is right near a lot of my friends, and it just feels like for the first time in forever, something went right for me today... .  

I am looking forward to moving in and having company and making new friends... .   fresh start and all that.

Still have the headache of sorting this place and selling all furniture, washing machine, sofas etc etc... .   but at least I have found a place to move into!

Yeah!  And I thought I'd share with you guys as today was just a good day :)


Title: Re: Something went right for me today :)
Post by: Findingmysong723 on April 02, 2013, 07:52:14 PM
Awesome! Congrats on the new place!


Title: Re: Something went right for me today :)
Post by: Wooddragon on April 02, 2013, 09:18:02 PM
Thanks for sharing that Mango Flower - its good to hear someone's positive news & to recall that there IS light at the end of the tunnel!


Title: Re: Something went right for me today :)
Post by: captain4464 on April 02, 2013, 10:24:50 PM
Congrats Mango_flower.  I moved into my own place recently and it was like a breath of fresh air.  It is mine, all mine, without the pressure of walking on eggshells.  At times it is a bit lonely but I don't have to concern myself with a toxic (for me) relationship that was destroying my self esteem.  Hope you find peace in your new place.


Title: Re: Something went right for me today :)
Post by: sad but wiser on April 03, 2013, 01:49:38 AM
Great news, Mango flower!  You needed a good break!  :)