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Title: Shouldn't their shame keep them from recycling? Post by: fakename on April 03, 2013, 08:31:14 PM Sometimes I feel like the shame they have for what they do would keep them away from trying to recycle a past relationship, no?
Title: Re: Shouldn't their shame keep them from recycling? Post by: Clearmind on April 03, 2013, 09:43:37 PM FN, can you explain your definition of recyle? Do you mean your ex calling you after 2 months of NC or are you referring to the late night calls asking for you back?
Shame = who we are - "I am a mistake" Guilt = what we do - "I made a mistake" Title: Re: Shouldn't their shame keep them from recycling? Post by: fakename on April 04, 2013, 04:50:36 AM Well maybe I don't mean recycle.
I'm just wondering that shouldn't their ego or their guilt keep them from trying to get back together? And I guess I'm referring to the calls asking for me back especially if its after a long period of time |