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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Diligence on April 05, 2013, 02:57:21 PM



Title: Gift Wrapped Brain
Post by: Diligence on April 05, 2013, 02:57:21 PM
I resist change while knowing that I need it.  Replacing habitual coping skills with new ones is tough.

This morning an image popped into my mind.  I pictured my brain nestled in a fancy gift box.  I perceive this image as a representation of how important caring for my brain is!  My thoughts are lightening fast and habitually follow a deeply grooved, erroneous path to which my feelings involuntarily respond.

I also perceive this brain in a box image as motivation to persevere with cognitive recovery:   I really appreciate things wrapped in fancy wrapping!  I picture myself tenderly looking down into this special occasion brain box while gratefully cradling it.

The posts here reassure me that I have fellow travellers on the circuitous path to recovery from long-term interaction with BPD.  : )  I am glad for your company!

Warm regards,

Diligence


Title: Re: Gift Wrapped Brain
Post by: ScarletOlive on April 11, 2013, 04:25:42 PM
I like this image, Diligence. Since your brain is wrapped up in you, it has lovely wrapping indeed. :) Take care.


Title: Re: Gift Wrapped Brain
Post by: Cumulus on April 11, 2013, 08:26:06 PM
And I am glad for yours diligence. Slowing down thought to feeling to reaction is so needed for me too. It would save a lot of negative talk in my head.


Title: Re: Gift Wrapped Brain
Post by: Diligence on April 11, 2013, 10:45:03 PM
Dear ScarletOlive and Cumulus,

Thanks for your responses! 

Warm regards!