|
Title: he contacted me after a month of NC - I have a bad feeling Post by: DepressIsolatedMeg on April 06, 2013, 07:12:31 PM so today I texted him and asked when I can get rest of my stuff back, he said he will contact me next week. I said "ok" and expected the conversation would be ended there. He followed with a ":)" which totally creeped me out.
And an hour later he text me again, said he misses me. I ignored it. Just now he text me again, and asked what I am up to. I ignored it again. I just feel scared but I can't tell what it is. I have a feeling that if I keep ignoring him, he is going to tell me sth to make me cry/feel guilty. I manage very well so far after went on NC, I WILL NOT GO BACK to him. I was just thinking about how I was when I was with him - he definitely brought out the worst in me and I don't want to go back to that state. How do you guys deal with a situation like this? Title: Re: he contacted me after a month of NC - I have a bad feeling Post by: mango_flower on April 06, 2013, 07:22:08 PM Keep it controlled and non-emotive. Best advice I read here was to be as boring as hell! :)
Keep posting here so you can people to help you feel strong. Best of luck x Title: Re: he contacted me after a month of NC - I have a bad feeling Post by: LuckyEscapee on April 06, 2013, 08:33:09 PM Boring, no info, and no 'feel good' worked for me.
Take care |