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Title: PTSD and a BPD
Post by: vanillaswirl on April 27, 2013, 10:22:59 PM
If someone has PTSD from former abusive relationship and they are now with someone with BPD who blames all of their problems on them, what kind of help/therapy should they look for? Note that BPD says they have no problem at all


Title: Re: PTSD and a BPD
Post by: Somewhere on April 30, 2013, 07:07:45 PM
what kind of help/therapy should they look for?

Help with reading the EXIT sign over the door?

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Note that BPD says they have no problem at all

"they" do not have a problem.  

It is working for them.

You have the problem.

First time a T told me that, it was a bit of shock.  But now I get it.


Title: Re: PTSD and a BPD
Post by: vanillaswirl on May 02, 2013, 02:28:32 PM
You know, I told my husband once the only reason he never really ends it, is that if I wasn't around anymore, he would have to be responsible for his own problems instead of saying everything was my fault


Title: Re: PTSD and a BPD
Post by: Take2 on May 03, 2013, 05:03:02 PM
You know, I told my husband once the only reason he never really ends it, is that if I wasn't around anymore, he would have to be responsible for his own problems instead of saying everything was my fault

That's brilliant... .  !   although I imagine it did not go over very well... .