Title: Despite Manipulation, Maintained Boundary Post by: Diligence on May 01, 2013, 03:44:27 PM I just held firm in the face of verbal bullying and manipulation from my xuNPDh. I stated and maintained my boundary. I did not yield to his presumption or accusation.
In the aftermath, I feel agitated. Though I held my ground, I did not feel detached. I felt angry. So, let me remember that I cannot change the way I am treated by others. Rather, I can protect, care, and love myself. I would like to have a miraculous cognitive/emotional healing! I wish... . Title: Re: Despite Manipulation, Maintained Boundary Post by: wayforward2day on May 01, 2013, 04:49:25 PM i share those feelings too ! its not a good place but it is better than in deep fog and cant see anything, no way forward, no bearings, blind, frightened... . hell
hang on, its a good place to be... . :light: |