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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: raindancer on May 11, 2013, 07:44:26 AM



Title: Paradox - anyone experience this?
Post by: raindancer on May 11, 2013, 07:44:26 AM
Is there a lesson for this?

When I identify things as being good in our relationship - we are talking, doing things together and trying to "work this out", he's feeling at his worst inside. His actions are saying "I'm happy" but inside he's thinking "how do I get out of this?"

This last week has been, I thought, a step forward for us. Today he tells me he's been having thoughts of suicide all week... .  



Title: Re: Paradox - anyone experience this?
Post by: bruceli on May 11, 2013, 12:34:37 PM
A type of the push/pull.  My week has been the same... .  Ulra pull, ultra push.