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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: BioAdoptMom3 on May 12, 2013, 01:47:01 PM



Title: Wish for grieving, suffering, distanced from kids, foster, adoptive, ALL moms
Post by: BioAdoptMom3 on May 12, 2013, 01:47:01 PM
“To those who gave birth this year to their first child—we celebrate with you

To those who lost a child this year – we mourn with you

To those who are in the trenches with little ones every day and wear the badge of food stains – we appreciate you

To those who experienced loss this year through miscarriage, failed adoptions, or running away—we mourn with you

To those who walk the hard path of infertility, fraught with pokes, prods, tears, and disappointment – we walk with you. Forgive us when we say foolish things. We don’t mean to make this harder than it is.

To those who are foster moms, mentor moms, and spiritual moms – we need you

To those who have warm and close relationships with your children – we celebrate with you

To those who have disappointment, heart ache, and distance with your children – we sit with you

To those who lost their mothers this year – we grieve with you

To those who experienced abuse at the hands of your own mother – we acknowledge your experience

To those who lived through driving tests, medical tests, and the overall testing of motherhood – we are better for having you in our midst

To those who will have emptier nests in the upcoming year – we grieve and rejoice with you

And to those who are pregnant with new life, both expected and surprising –we anticipate with you

This Mother’s Day, we walk with you. Mothering is not for the faint of heart and we have real warriors in our midst. We remember you.



Title: Re: Wish for grieving, suffering, distanced from kids, foster, adoptive, ALL moms
Post by: mamachelle on May 12, 2013, 09:41:16 PM
This is really nice--

Thanks for sharing... .  


  mamachelle


Title: Re: Wish for grieving, suffering, distanced from kids, foster, adoptive, ALL moms
Post by: Hopeliveshere on May 12, 2013, 10:02:16 PM
Thanks for sharing this BAM3... .  very nice.

The hours are long, but well worth it.

HLH


Title: Re: Wish for grieving, suffering, distanced from kids, foster, adoptive, ALL moms
Post by: BlushAndBashful on May 12, 2013, 11:18:37 PM
I saw the title of this thread, and I was going to post this exact same passage.  <3  I found it beautiful and meaningful since it touches my life in a few ways.  Much love and peace to all.


Title: Re: Wish for grieving, suffering, distanced from kids, foster, adoptive, ALL moms
Post by: qcarolr on May 13, 2013, 10:14:06 AM
Yes to all these things.

THANKS. you are a mother's day 

qcr