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Title: Has your ex accused you of having BPD? Post by: confetti on May 12, 2013, 02:58:28 PM I found this very frequent, saying I or a close friend "probably has BPD" (not the case)
Have any of you experienced this? Title: Re: Has your ex accused you of having BPD? Post by: GreenMango on May 12, 2013, 06:13:25 PM BPD is a longstanding pattern of interpersonal relationship instability. It crosses many affecting family, friend, romantic and work relationships. The characteristics is a fear of rejection, hostility, mood lability (moody quickly changing), self destructive behaviors (drug use, gambling, etc), and sometumes self harming or suicidal behavior. Its a deep seated way of experiencing the world.
It isn't a one off bad relationship. A person can have trusts without the disorder. It's good to assess our patterns and our partner. It could give a better understanding of what is really going on. |