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Title: Getting ignored Post by: hippyman on May 21, 2013, 11:10:53 AM My girlfriend has done this a few times lately, so I'm hoping it won't become a growing problem. She texted me yesterday, and told me that she would be out of contact for a few days, and wouldn't be talking to anyone but her therapist. Then, this morning, she called my mother. I want to respect her wishes to have alone time, to deal with things, yet at the same time, I feel like shes lying to me, and that I should call her on it. I just want things to be like they were when she was visiting, for that week... . things were so peaceful. I know her family is a lot of the problem, but how can I tell her that? Please, help me out here.
Title: Re: Getting ignored Post by: briefcase on May 21, 2013, 03:46:08 PM Hi hippyman,
It might be best to give her a little time to herself - since that's what she's asking for. Chasing her down right now won't help the relationship. Take some time while you are having a little break from her to read out Lessons! There is some great stuff in there that should help you when she's ready to talk. |