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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Foreverhopefull on June 04, 2013, 07:10:42 AM



Title: Fifty shades...
Post by: Foreverhopefull on June 04, 2013, 07:10:42 AM
I finally got into reading the Fifty Shades of Grey books (I know, I know how horrible of me... . LOL)

As I'm reading, I'm noticing traits of Mr.Grey that my dBPDh has.

For example: the "I'm unlovable" syndrome. My dBPDh is obsessed with this too. He still thinks he doesn't deserve me... . it's been 19 years... . I think it's more than just friendship by now 

His fear of being abandoned. Again, after 19 years, it should be clear that after everything, I'm in for the long run.

His emotions being so fragile and changing... . One thing said one day that was so funny can be the worst thing to say the next.

There is so much more too.

Has anyone who read the books think that Mr.Grey might have been BPD too?... . or am I reading it wrong? (according to my friends I am reading it wrong... . LOL)