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Title: Stooping to his level Post by: Jeansok on June 06, 2013, 09:40:18 AM ... . I refuse to do stoop to his level today and the smart a$$ passive agressive responses feeling like I have to defend myself. Today I feel it's better to be away from him then with him and more than half the time it is that way. I love my H and want him to get help but I can't help but feel like this is NOT what I want the rest of my life. I guess I just have to change my way of thinking. I don't know. He has agreed to see someone as I mentioned on an earlier post, but we've just had one session. Maybe it's his way of lashing out because it's hard for him to deal with the fact he has a problem, but all night he was talking about how bipolar he was and making sarcastic remarks to such.
I just have a "whatever" attitude today. I know I'll get a thousand text messages ranging from I miss you and wish you were close, to the sarcastic condescending passive aggressive BS... . I'm not handling this well the last few days. He's off work today. Title: Re: Stooping to his level Post by: Rockylove on June 07, 2013, 05:47:30 AM turn off your phone :)
Title: Re: Stooping to his level Post by: Jeansok on June 07, 2013, 07:35:02 PM Then ill here how ignored he was... . lol But yeah for sure
Title: Re: Stooping to his level Post by: atcrossroads on June 07, 2013, 09:06:00 PM BPD's sure do hate to me ignored. Take care of yourself - it sounds like there is a lot going on here. Listen to your gut.
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