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Title: dealing with the divorce and my stbxh feels SO good... Post by: momtara on June 19, 2013, 10:39:14 PM when a round of it is over... .
it's like hitting your head with a hammer and then it stops for a while. what a fantastic relief. i'm joking, but hopefully that gave someone a laugh, or a sigh. take a hot bath today or have a dessert you enjoy. i hereby give you permission to stop thinking about your divorce for the next minute. |iiii Title: Re: dealing with the divorce and my stbxh feels SO good... Post by: marbleloser on June 20, 2013, 08:59:13 AM Sounds good to me. |iiii Not a bath kinda guy,but you know what I mean. lol
Title: Re: dealing with the divorce and my stbxh feels SO good... Post by: Matt on June 20, 2013, 09:45:34 AM My counselor advised me to "compartmentalize: set aside certain times each day, to deal with each difficult issue, like legal stuff or whatever. Then move on to other subjects. Easier said than done - this stuff tends to consume you - but I worked at it, and it helped.
Title: Re: dealing with the divorce and my stbxh feels SO good... Post by: thinkingthinking on June 23, 2013, 09:47:28 PM Divorce can be SO consuming... . figuring out a way to take a breath is crucial!
Just hard to set that time aside when work, kids, money, are all weighing on you as well. Title: Re: dealing with the divorce and my stbxh feels SO good... Post by: livednlearned on June 25, 2013, 04:53:19 PM Good advice!
It does kinda settle down, eventually. Sometimes I think of N/BPDx like a mosquito. Irritating, potentially carries a life-changing disease, but for the most part just noisy and itchy. Can't believe I'm actually at a point where I can compare him to a mosquito :) |