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Title: Too hot or just needing drama? Post by: raindancer on June 24, 2013, 08:11:41 AM Things have been very quiet for a the last week. No family stuff - or if there has been, I've not been asking... .
Yesterday, no reason, no warning - I asked a question about something he was doing, in a way he didn't like I guess and he raged. I left for a while. When I came back he was upset and crying. He started the blame game as soon as I came in. I didn't say much, I just validated. He told me to move out, I told him he's right I should look for another place. He said we don't get along, I told him he's right about that but didn't expand on it. He said lots of things, I agreed. He got quiet and went to bed. I think because he wasn't getting the argument he wanted... . Makes me wonder if it was the heat or if things have been too quiet and he felt the need to create drama... . Title: Re: Too hot or just needing drama? Post by: bruceli on June 24, 2013, 01:39:17 PM All of the above and what I feel BPD/NPDw likes most of all... . testing me to she just how much I can take to see if I will leave. Everyone has left her or has a shallow relationship with her as is the way of the pwPD. Not being able to truly understand love, she constantly tests me trying to figure out why I have stayed... . This weekend was filled with... . boy... . you are soo odd. You're the crazy one... . and all the rest that many on this site have heard from there pw PD... .
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