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Title: How long for NC?
Post by: crystalclear on July 20, 2013, 04:49:41 PM
  folks,

NC surely  helps us in our recovery and detachment. Although initiated by my exbf immediately after he called it quits,  I decided to stick by it a month later since.

I am approaching 4 months,  :)!

How is it going for you?



Title: Re: How long for NC?
Post by: waitaminute on July 20, 2013, 05:27:42 PM
Said goodbye last october. Some intermittent contact since. But my new significant other asked that I change my phone and email and don't even read her messages. About a month of that now. It's starting to clear my head.


Title: Re: How long for NC?
Post by: mil2bpd on July 20, 2013, 05:33:32 PM
Four years for the exu BPD NPD .male friend who opened my eyes to these PDs


Title: Re: How long for NC?
Post by: me757 on July 20, 2013, 05:52:23 PM
On my 12th day and it feels like eternity. My exBPDgf and I broke up 8 months ago but we both kept talking/stayed attached and even hooked up a dozen or so times while she was with the new guy. She got married nearly 2 months ago and still has tried to hold on to me behind his back but I started NC cus enough is enough. Since then she has called twice and texted once - I have not replied.