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Title: About Choices Post by: WXYZ on July 25, 2013, 08:51:48 AM Mate, there’s nothing more EX than an EX – especially an exBPD
No ifs, buts or maybes – you are gone! Yes, you’ve tried to reconnect a couple of times through various strange and devious means But the answer is always the same, isn’t it! I know it seems harsh but there’s a vital lesson in all this Your behaviour is simply unacceptable Ply your trade somewhere else or get help The choice is yours Sincerely Bloke Title: Re: About Choices Post by: WXYZ on July 26, 2013, 02:43:56 AM No? Too over the top ?
Title: Re: About Choices Post by: Validation78 on July 26, 2013, 06:59:05 AM Hey Bloke!
Is this a note you want to write to your expwBPD? Best Wishes, Val78 Title: Re: About Choices Post by: Surnia on July 26, 2013, 02:51:58 PM AussieBloke
I would perhaps not send it, it is often wiser to write letters for ourselves and not sent them. I like the spirit in your text. Short and straight forward. |iiii Title: Re: About Choices Post by: WXYZ on July 26, 2013, 04:53:40 PM AussieBloke I would perhaps not send it, it is often wiser to write letters for ourselves and not sent them. I like the spirit in your text. Short and straight forward. |iiii Thanx Was pretty much just 'thinking out loud' when I posted this ... . It's just where my head's at at the moment ... . It's not 'rocket science' - either someone has got what it takes to be in a wholesome relationship or they don't. Unacceptable behaviour is exactly that and its important the BPDer gets this message very clearly and understand there are consequences to their actions. Title: Re: About Choices Post by: eniale on July 26, 2013, 06:14:45 PM You are absolutely right on all counts. I could not agree more. Bravo!
Title: Re: About Choices Post by: WXYZ on July 26, 2013, 07:09:47 PM You are absolutely right on all counts. I could not agree more. Bravo! And having said all this, as unpleasant as it may seem but absolutely necessary, I am left with this thought: Speaking of choices ... . The splendours of life are there before us all And it’s waiting for us to reach out and take it with both hands Title: Re: About Choices Post by: Trick1004 on July 27, 2013, 01:09:16 AM Bloke,
I like it. The only thing missing is it is our choice also. People make choices everyday that I have no control over and whatever choices my ex makes no longer has any bearing on the choices I make everyday for myself. Our choice, if we are going to let this experience effect the rest of our lives. Our choice, if we are going to allow ourselves to get recycled over and over. Our choice, if we can look deep inside and see how we let this happen. And most importantly it is our choice when we decide to let go and move on to better things! Title: Re: About Choices Post by: WXYZ on July 27, 2013, 01:14:51 AM Bloke, I like it. The only thing missing is it is our choice also. This: "Speaking of choices ... . The splendours of life are there before us all And it’s waiting for us to reach out and take it with both hands" means its OUR choice ... . So there you go, we're on the 'same page' :) Title: Re: About Choices Post by: Clearmind on July 27, 2013, 05:56:20 AM Our choice, if we are going to let this experience effect the rest of our lives. Our choice, if we are going to allow ourselves to get recycled over and over. Our choice, if we can look deep inside and see how we let this happen. And most importantly it is our choice when we decide to let go and move on to better things! |iiii Trick - very true and wise! This is what taking back personal power and being accountable means and oozes emotional maturity. Title: Re: About Choices Post by: eniale on July 27, 2013, 03:59:04 PM Here's to us all making the right choices.
We have all been in the valley of despair and are climbing up the other side. If we can get through this, we truly are survivors! As Tiny Tim said "God Bless Us, One and All!" |