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Title: NC= hiding? Post by: Xtrange on July 30, 2013, 10:31:54 PM I am in the divorce process. I stick to NC. But, I have to hide because she knows which places I would go or stay. Did that happen to somebody else? Once divorce is final, the chasing ends?
I am feeling paranoid, and thinking about she made an appearance and a do scandal anywhere. Title: Re: NC= hiding? Post by: catnap on August 02, 2013, 10:16:46 AM After the divorce, she may or may not stop chasing you. However, you can prepare yourself on how to respond/react.
Can you please give some examples of what you fear she will do or has done in the past? Title: Re: NC= hiding? Post by: Xtrange on August 13, 2013, 12:04:32 AM I decided NC because I don’t want all the emotional blackmail (FOG) again and some veiled threats (she knows lawyers, police officers and insinuated also a hit man)
She sent friends of her to find me at my mother’s house and the places that I work. When the divorce papers were served, she initiated a car persecution in a mayor avenue and even I was with the lawyer and the court officer (and the police was present) she threw at me all the FOG for the divorce and tried to recycle me again. |