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Title: Pattern of rage/painted black when exBPD deals with ex/kids Post by: babushka on August 02, 2013, 03:47:55 PM Has anyone else experienced being raged at out of the blue or painted black just before our after an ExBPD scheduled time to spend time with kids? My ex's kids lived with their mom full time and he irregularly picked them up for concerts or took them for a weekend a few times a year. Also he would go to his hometown where they were to briefly eat dinner with them and give them money. Of course, there were plenty of other times his episodes were directed at me but I noticed there seemed to be a pattern of intensity during these times. Thank God, he never seems to have any angry behavior or feelings towards his kids.
Title: Re: Pattern of rage/painted black when exBPD deals with ex/kids Post by: babushka on August 02, 2013, 04:00:31 PM I should add that he wasn't my ex when this was happening. we were still together.
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