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Title: RIP... my marriage Post by: wchi on August 03, 2013, 12:21:32 PM Have not posted in some time, but I just need to post this. My divorce was final 48 hours ago. So happy to have that weight removed from my soul! To anyone going through a divorce - keep your head up, be patient. It will happen.
Thanks all! Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Surnia on August 04, 2013, 05:10:58 AM wchi
So great! I know how it feels, the relief... . Now you can looking forward. Take care Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Mutt on August 04, 2013, 11:06:56 AM Do you feel closure? I'm hoping it does for me from the way that she left in such an abrupt and chaotic way and didn't give me closure.
Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: thisyoungdad on August 05, 2013, 01:04:34 AM I second what Mutt asked, that is my story.
Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Forward2free on August 05, 2013, 10:11:55 AM My divorce gave me closure and a true sense of not being responsible for BPD/Nxh any longer. We still have dealings due to the kids, but I'd already mourned my marriage and the husband I thought I'd lost (who didn't exist), so divorce was a gift just for me. It's still a date I celebrate in my heart each year, more so than my wedding anniversary which doesn't feel like much at all anymore.
Congratulations! Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Jai Yen on August 08, 2013, 01:49:10 PM I look forward to posting the same message soon. I can only imagine the since of relief you feel. I look forward to completely releasing the weight on my soul as well. I wish you a bright future!
Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Forestaken on August 08, 2013, 02:06:32 PM Me too. Dragging on since May 2012
Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: coffee shop on August 12, 2013, 09:33:10 AM How wonderful! |iiii
Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: rogerroger on August 12, 2013, 01:14:49 PM Glad to hear you feel free of that weight. In theory, mine will be final in just 2 more days, you'd think I'd be looking forward to it, but I think it may take awhile for it to sink in. I guess I still feel a sense of unreality about it all.
Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Forestaken on August 12, 2013, 01:43:14 PM Glad to hear you feel free of that weight. In theory, mine will be final in just 2 more days, you'd think I'd be looking forward to it, but I think it may take awhile for it to sink in. I guess I still feel a sense of unreality about it all. Congratulations! Go and live your life like the great person you are! Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Xtrange on August 13, 2013, 12:11:39 AM My divorce gave me closure and a true sense of not being responsible for BPD/Nxh any longer. I am separated and in the divorce process. My lawyer just told me that I shouldn't feel "responsible" for my wife. That we both are adults. Each one responsible for oneself. Title: Re: RIP... my marriage Post by: Jai Yen on August 13, 2013, 11:31:25 AM Amen to that! It takes time to get to that point especially after years of trying to rescue or fix the other person.
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