Title: brief recycle Post by: alliance on August 10, 2013, 09:56:58 AM Now I understand about the hazards of the 3 month mark during nc. We had a very brief recycle.
It was an interesting experience tho. I had detached more than I thought. Could see the behaviors more clearly without rationalizing them. Could feel the drain on my body and energy resources and patience. I am happy it didn't throw me back to square one. Am regrouping but feel stronger overall. Twas a lesson learned. Has anyone else felt a brief recycle after nc helped them to detach further? Title: Re: brief recycle Post by: Moonie75 on August 10, 2013, 10:19:54 AM Who ended it this time?
You saying after 3 months NC you'd detached enough to go back & found yourself thinking 'This aint doin it for me anymore' so ya walked? Good god I hope I'd feel like that when I get to 3 months out! Title: Re: brief recycle Post by: Moonie75 on August 10, 2013, 10:24:11 AM Now I understand about the hazards of the 3 month mark during nc. We had a very brief recycle. If you'd detached sufficiently to see the rubbish & not rationalize it, why you calling that time hazardous? Sounds quite like healthy progress & quite the opposite of hazardous! |