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Title: Rethink recycle day Post by: left4good on August 17, 2013, 08:00:08 AM Getting back on the workout train. Slowing down the beer. You can't not have a beer belly and still have the beer! :)
Kids started school so That's exciting and I'm getting ready for my new apartment. We still live together so she is still a big part of my life but we're both doing pretty good. Yesterday was kind of a rethink recycle day. She asked me some questions about couples therapy and stuff and it was our sons birthday. Some of the natural emotions came back for a bit. Left Title: Rethink recycle day Post by: left4good on August 17, 2013, 04:54:27 PM Short back story... .
We live together. I called it quits about 2 weeks ago when I had my fill of her prioritizing everyone else but her family. This gripes me twofold. One: if you have small kids and would be step kids and a boyfriend at home I think making time for us is important. She doesn't. Two: her being out and displaying the same patterns as earlier in our relationship when I found out she was reeling a new guy in and had set up an entirely separate life with him and his kids really gets me going. It was too much to handle so I said I'm done. We are still living together because of our lease. Yesterday... . We hadn't really talked. Both of us have deposits on separate apartments and She's started packing. I get a text simple text about a comment I made the night before and that ignites a day long conversation. From this is hard, I Don't trust you still to I still think You're a liar and I Don't trust you. After we both got home she immediately gets ready and leaves for a friends house even though its our sons birthday. I'm angry and confused and She's confused about my anger. Today we got to lunch with the kids and then have a fairly normal day. A bit confused. Left |