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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Undone123 on August 17, 2013, 07:23:59 PM



Title: Nightmare on blog...
Post by: Undone123 on August 17, 2013, 07:23:59 PM
I was writing. I keep all my writing unpublished on my blog, as its not going to fall in to the wrong hands. Anyway, I hit "reblog" on an article about abusive relationships, I wanted to take some bits away from it about how I felt at the time of my relationship. I didn't realise it would publicly post onto my blog, but it did so I immediately removed it... . Instead I liked it, so that I could access it from my home page. I did my writing... . Anyway tonight I checked my blog. I have access to stats. 3 days ago my blog was viewed 26 times by one person. I never get any viewers to my blog. I've opened up my social media as we are a long time apart now... .

Anyway I can view the search terms. I'm pretty sure it is my ex. This article is triggering, and by noway reflective of my thoughts on her. I can't reach out to her to explain... .

Thoughts?


Title: Nightmare on blog...
Post by: Undone123 on August 17, 2013, 07:26:35 PM
I immediately removed it, but when you google my name, and then ommitted results the title of the article shows up at about page 4. When you click on it, it sends you to a page that can't be seen... . But someone clicked on my blog, from the like on the other blog.


Title: Nightmare on blog...
Post by: Moonie75 on August 17, 2013, 07:33:55 PM
If you're not together anymore what does it matter who or why or whatever?

I wouldn't worry about it!



Title: Nightmare on blog...
Post by: Undone123 on August 17, 2013, 07:39:58 PM
I know I'm not responsible for her feelings, but I'm trying to remain compassionate, as there were times I wasn't, and learn as much as possible really. That article definitely wasn't compassionate.


Title: Nightmare on blog...
Post by: Undone123 on August 17, 2013, 08:51:27 PM
removed - morality, kicking in. No one reads it, I redo whats on it. sorry for the random one!