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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: casper324 on August 21, 2013, 08:59:24 PM



Title: FRO
Post by: casper324 on August 21, 2013, 08:59:24 PM
It has been a long journey and too much to type. However tomorrow I go for a FRO against my Body at 8:30 in the am. He has representation which I could not afford. The sliding scale attorneys that work with out Counties Domestic violence group are not available. My witness leaves the Country next week so I need this to be heard tomorrow.  I cant express my emotions as I truly loved this man. Then I listen to voice mails, read texts and see the pure hate in his eyes and wonder why I care,he has done so much to destroy me, take away things that made me me. So please wish me luck, peace and happiness.



Title: Re: FRO
Post by: catnap on August 22, 2013, 12:34:17 AM
 casper324

Wishing you peace, happiness and clarity.  Please let us know how things went. 



Title: Re: FRO
Post by: MammaMia on August 22, 2013, 01:24:08 AM
Casper

Thank you for contacting the BPDF website.  I understand your situation.

It is sad when we need to seek protection from those we once loved.  However, this not uncommon for pwBPD.  Their emotions are so out of control, and who knows what they are really capable of? You need to be safe and living in fear is no life at all.  

I hope things go well, and peace and safety are restored.  You have an absolute right to be you... .  AND you deserve to be treated well.  Stay strong and fight for what is just.

We are all here to help.  Good luck and God bless.