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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: simplyasiam on September 07, 2013, 08:22:52 PM



Title: pride in the little things
Post by: simplyasiam on September 07, 2013, 08:22:52 PM
ive made it 10 days with out contacting ex or replying to her message. starting to feel feel her hold over my mind slip away.

i still long for mu family back but it starting to pass.

if your in the start of a break up plz know it gets better, it hurts but it gets better.


Title: Re: pride in the little things
Post by: Phoenix.Rising on September 07, 2013, 10:09:08 PM
  simplyasiam,

It's good to hear that you are feeling a bit better.  Keep putting one foot in front of the other.  It will continue to take time, but appreciate the relief and growth you are experiencing in the process.  Take it easy.



Title: Re: pride in the little things
Post by: simplyasiam on September 07, 2013, 10:35:02 PM
thank you, ive never done anything this hard in my life, im only now seeing how this r/s changed me as a person and my veiws on love and family.

i have trouble  even talking to healthy ppl i recycled so many times with her i still find myself thinking she will return any day.



Title: Re: pride in the little things
Post by: Phoenix.Rising on September 08, 2013, 03:27:52 PM
It helps me to be kind to myself.  Do something nice for you today.