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Title: new member Post by: goldbeme on September 08, 2013, 09:11:57 AM Our daughter-in-law is a BPD. Our life has been perfectly described in the 'daughter-in-law with BPD' threads - we currently can't speak to our son or see our grandchildren - and we are glad that we are not alone.
Title: Re: new member Post by: Phoenix.Rising on September 08, 2013, 09:52:48 PM goldbeme,
*welcome* I'm glad you found us. How old is your daughter-in-law, and how long has she been with your son? Why can't you speak to them? When a family member has BPD, the illness can negatively everyone in the family system, including children, siblings, and in-laws. Senior members on the [L5] Coping and Healing from a BPD Parent, Sibling, or Inlaw (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=7.0) board are experienced with and can help you with setting boundaries, finding relief from FOG, encouraging self-care, improving your handling of relationships impacted by your BPD relative, and pursuing a path of recovery from traumatic experiences. The validation, information, and support will give you strength on your journey. Phoenix.Rising |