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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Ironmanrises on September 08, 2013, 03:23:01 PM



Title: Another unrecognized number calling my phone.
Post by: Ironmanrises on September 08, 2013, 03:23:01 PM
Received another unrecognized local number on my cell phone.

I didn't answer it.

No voicemail was left.

This is already several times this has happened since she left me.

I wasn't getting calls like this when I was with her.

Most likely a family/friend of hers cell calling to see if I changed my number.

As I feared... .this will only increase.

She did in the NC period when she first left me too.

Similar behavior.

But with private numbers.

Staying NC.



Title: Re: Another unrecognized number calling my phone.
Post by: Want2know on September 08, 2013, 06:17:40 PM
I'm going to throw out another possibility... .it could not be your ex.  There are enough rogue tele-marketers where their number comes up that way and they don't leave messages.  I've been getting those calls lately, too.  Not sure if it's a new thing for them now.

Here's a thought... .if it's her borrowing a phone, call the number now and see who answers.  You don't have to talk to them... .you can just say you received a call from their phone and was wondering if it was someone dialing a wrong number.  If the call was made earlier, she probably wouldn't have their phone now.  It will at least put your mind at ease.


Title: Re: Another unrecognized number calling my phone.
Post by: Ironmanrises on September 08, 2013, 08:03:44 PM
Want2know,

That could be a possibility too.

Only reason I think it is her is because she has done this before.

The disguised text I received that was made to look like spam has heightened my vigilance since... .that one originated 3 blocks from her house.