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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Wanda on September 09, 2013, 12:04:21 PM



Title: Well almost three months on same job so good so far
Post by: Wanda on September 09, 2013, 12:04:21 PM
 Well for those  who   don't know my husband started a new job after being unemployed three and a half months... he is  high functioning so holding a job is  easy for him.

We had a bumpy road he got a job working nights and had to go to orientation for one week away from home, he made it yey! then he had to switch his days and nights around like i said that was bumpy also you can really see the BPD come out but after the week orientation and the switching days to nights, he made it,. he makes really good money and he works only four days, he is alot less stressed, and he is starting to like his  night job.

HE makes five dollars more an hour and time and a half after 40. he also has benefits something he never had.  so life is good we got him a navigation system, and a CB radio so he can talk on it when  he drives his truck.

alot of classes he has to do on line , and he is computer dumb like me  ,but we are slowly getting use to that even. HE likes his job, and he likes his boss,. so i beleive he will stay here until he retires . HE has  a computer on his truck to clock in and out and he is even getting use to that,.

so on with llife we go... .:) :) :) :)  humm ?and he is undiagnosed... .i am happy he is high functioning, and in AA that helps,.


Title: Re: Well almost three months on same job so good so far
Post by: eeyore on September 09, 2013, 12:14:03 PM
Wanda that is wonderful news.  I am happy for you. Thank you for taking the time to visit here and provide an update.  It's very helpful.  He is very lucky to have you.


Title: Re: Well almost three months on same job so good so far
Post by: Grey Kitty on September 09, 2013, 01:09:34 PM
Hooray for getting over the speed bumps and moving forward at speed!


Title: Re: Well almost three months on same job so good so far
Post by: Scarlet Phoenix on September 09, 2013, 04:51:02 PM
That's great news  |iiii


Title: Re: Well almost three months on same job so good so far
Post by: Wanda on September 09, 2013, 11:41:41 PM
Thanks everyone!

i also forgot we also combined our checking  accounts at first i thought this won't work due to he is to the penny, but i told him i budget and balanace off the computer, he was ok with this he lets me handle all the money which i did before anyway, and so far so good with that as well. he just uses his money he gets a week and he uses the checking rarely.  but so far so good... .  |iiii  


Title: Re: Well almost three months on same job so good so far
Post by: Chosen on September 12, 2013, 04:06:27 AM
Wanda, your story always encourages me (my H is high functioning and not dx), good job!